I admit, I am slightly more neurotic than most, but I also realize,
given the sheer number of friends and relatives I've spoken to, that I am not
alone in my plight to engage, teach, and love my children as much as I possibly
can. And whilst they say, "it takes a village", most days I
feel like I may perhaps be on an island, far, far, far in the middle of the
ocean, with no village, let alone villagers, in sight. I feel the
pressures of being a perfect mother, spouse, employer, and friend mount to
nearly an insurmountable height only before I realize that I am putting this
pressure on myself. It is not society that breathes down my neck at 1am
to ensure my two-year-old knows the alphabet, but me. My, our, village is
there, perhaps not like our mothers and grandmothers experienced, but it's
there through social media, pinterest, and google-searches.
Thus, I have done what every tortured mother has done and, on a daily
basis, asked herself, “Am I doing this correctly?!?!?!” The answer is, I don’t know. Time will tell, and perhaps even, the mere
fact that I ask if I’m doing so, means I probably am… at least some of the
time.
This blog is one amongst easily thousands that, with hope will provide a
resource for other mommies such as myself. It will be used to affirm what we’re doing and
some day, will be something my babies and I can look back and say, wow, we
really had fun!
I have combined a number of resources to try to provide a fun, educational,
fulfilling set of toddler days. Not
every day is perfect. Not every activity
is a smash hit either, but every child is different and perhaps they will work
for your little wonders.
Most of the arts, crafts, fun come from the best places I can remember;
my mom and grandma. Easily the two
smartest women that exist, and with hope when they read this blog, they will
excuse the grammatical error and run-on sentences. The rest is a hodge-podge of home-schooling
resources, pinterest pins, and help from loved ones.
With hope, you will enjoy this as much as the kids and I do. With hope, it will affirm that, in fact, we
are doing this correctly.
Kendra, I'm so glad you are doing this! What a great way to chronicle what you are doing with those sweet babes and encourage others in the process. :)
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